Before You Start
Adult would you rather works like the classic game: two options, one choice, then defend it. The difference is the topics, so agree on limits first. A simple rule helps: anyone can pass on a question without explaining, and nobody repeats answers outside the room.
In a mixed group, answering out loud can feel awkward. Voting privately on each phone and seeing only the totals keeps it fun for the shy ones too.
Everyone answers on their own phone and only the split is shown. Classic pack is free.
Grown-Up Would You Rather Questions
Money, looks, ambition and the choices adults actually argue about.
- Would you rather have a perfect body and an awful voice or an amazing voice and off-putting looks?
- Would you rather always look perfect but smell bad or always smell great but look scruffy?
- Would you rather spend a year in prison or suddenly become 10 years older?
- Would you rather be rich with no taste or stylish and always broke?
- Would you rather have unlimited money and no friends or strong friendships and always be on the edge of poverty?
- Would you rather win every lottery but keep losing money in strange ways or never win anything but always find money on the street?
- Would you rather have a young face and an old body or an old face and a young body?
- Would you rather be sweet but dumb or smart but unbearable?
- Would you rather have everyone know what you spend your money on or which videos you watch online?
- Would you rather give up your phone forever or give up salt and sugar?
- Would you rather give up vacations for life or never have a pet?
- Would you rather win $100 yourself or have your best friend win $10,000?
- Would you rather have unlimited first-class flights or never pay at restaurants again?
- Would you rather spend the rest of your life on a sailboat or in an RV?
- Would you rather never doubt yourself or never make mistakes?
- Would you rather be sincere but vulnerable or calm but cold?
- Would you rather be incredibly smart with no emotions or kind and caring but very naive?
- Would you rather become vegetarian for life or eat only fast food?
- Would you rather always spot a lie or always get away with lying?
- Would you rather be the smartest person alive but unable to explain your ideas or average but incredibly persuasive?
Would You Rather Questions About Relationships
These come from the game’s Spicy pack. They start real conversations between partners and long debates between single friends.
- Would you rather keep strong sexual chemistry after 10 years or a strong emotional bond?
- Would you rather keep the passion of the early days for years or grow a deep, calm, warm love?
- Would you rather keep some mystery in a long relationship or know each other down to the smallest detail?
- Would you rather be with someone you can be silent with for hours or someone you always have something to talk about with?
- Would you rather have an exciting sex life and a mediocre relationship or a deep relationship and a modest sex life?
- Would you rather have incredible sexual compatibility or perfect financial stability for life?
- Would you rather have a very attractive partner with bad chemistry in bed or a moderately attractive one with incredible chemistry?
- Would you rather be in an open relationship or a monogamous one where your partner occasionally cheats?
- Would you rather have steady but predictable sex in a long relationship or exciting but rare sex?
- Would you rather live with a partner who has a high libido but little romance or a low libido and lots of romance?
- Would you rather have a strong emotional bond with weak chemistry or strong chemistry with a weak bond?
- Would you rather sleep with only one person your whole life or live in any country you want?
Funny Would You Rather Questions for Adults
Half 18+, half absurd. The best ones to break the ice before things get serious.
- Would you rather have sex with someone who keeps squealing “wheee” or eat plain oatmeal with no salt and no sugar for the rest of your life?
- Would you rather never have sex again or yell “I love kittens!” every time you sneeze?
- Would you rather have one hour of incredible sex or one hour of cuddling a very cute but very gassy cat?
- Would you rather never have sex again or watch a video of yourself slipping and falling every night before bed?
- Would you rather sleep with someone who tells jokes during the act or wear socks with sandals forever?
- Would you rather have one epic night to “Macarena” or free Wi-Fi everywhere, forever?
Dirty Would You Rather Questions (18+)
Only for consenting adults who are comfortable with explicit topics. Skip any question that’s too much for the room.
- Would you rather have sex only in bed or only out of it: shower, kitchen, car?
- Would you rather have a threesome with two people you know well or with two strangers?
- Would you rather have very passionate sex once a week or fairly ordinary sex every day?
- Would you rather have very slow, long sex or quick, passionate sex?
- Would you rather always sleep together on the first date or wait six months every time?
- In bed, would you rather dominate or submit?
- After a first date, would you rather be the first to send a spicy photo or the first to receive one?
- Would you rather eat only food you hate for life or never have sex again?
- Would you rather never kiss again or never have sex again?
- Would you rather have sex only with the lights on or only in total darkness?
- Would you rather have sex in one position forever or keep trying new ones without much feeling?
- Would you rather have sex in public and risk getting caught or very loud sex with your parents next door?
The game’s Spicy pack has 271 dilemmas like these, from romantic to explicit, answered privately on each phone.
Tips for an Adult Round
Warm up first. Start with the grown-up dilemmas and move to the dirty section only when everyone is laughing.
Let people pass. A free skip keeps the game playful. Anyone who feels pressured stops having fun, and so does the room.
For something lighter, use our main list of 150+ would you rather questions. For more adult games, see truth or dare questions and adult party games.