How to Play Truth or Dare as a Couple

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Take turns. Give each other two free passes for the evening, and agree that whatever is said stays between you. Truths work best when the other person listens without arguing; ask one follow-up question at most, then move on.

With two players, dares run out quickly. Alternate: truth, dare, truth, and save the spicy cards for the end of the night.

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The Flirt & Mind Games pack is free. Two players and one phone are enough.

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Truth Questions for Couples

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Honest, a little vulnerable, never cruel.

  1. In one word: how do you feel about me?
  2. What’s your biggest insecurity?
  3. What do you regret about past relationships?
  4. What do you find most attractive about me?
  5. In relationships, do you give more or take more?
  6. What’s missing from your life right now?
  7. What lie do you tell yourself most often?
  8. What song would you dedicate to me, and why?
  9. What did your most painful relationship teach you?
  10. How often do you think about past relationships?
  11. What do you like most about yourself?
  12. If you could change one thing about your personality, what would it be?
  13. What would a perfect date with me look like?
  14. What do you do when you’re sad and nobody’s around?
  15. Where do you see us in 10 years?
  16. What was the happiest moment of your life?
  17. What do you want from a partner but feel shy asking for?
  18. How do you usually get back at someone who hurt you?
  19. What about you might have scared me off on our first date?
  20. What would you never forgive a partner for?

Truth or Dare for Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend

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  1. Truth: how can you tell when someone is flirting with you?
  2. Truth: what would someone have to do to make you lose your head?
  3. Truth: what kind of flirting works on you every single time?
  4. Truth: what hooks you more in me: humor, brains or confidence?
  5. Dare: pick me up in your arms.
  6. Dare: sit on my lap and tell me a bedtime story.
  7. Dare: give me a compliment that makes me blush.
  8. Dare: slow dance with me to any song.

Romantic Dares for Couples

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Sweet first, a little flirty later. Most take under a minute.

  1. Flirt with me using only your eyes for 15 seconds.
  2. Give me a hand massage for one minute.
  3. Tell me what your perfect date with me would be like.
  4. Hug me and don’t let go for 20 seconds.
  5. Kiss my hand.
  6. Sit on my lap until your next turn.
  7. Tell me what your first impression of me was.
  8. Describe me like you’re in an ad for expensive perfume.
  9. Draw a heart on my hand.
  10. Repeat anything I say in your most seductive voice.
  11. Close your eyes. I touch your hand and you guess with what: a finger, a nose or lips.
  12. I pick the pose for our romantic photo. Take the picture.
  13. Give me a head massage for one minute.
  14. Slowly take off one of my accessories and put it on yourself.
  15. Honesty minute: I ask you any three questions and you can only tell the truth.
  16. Draw my portrait in one minute and give it to me.
  17. Rest your head on my shoulder until your next turn.
  18. Act out a love confession scene with me.
  19. Tell me what surprised you about me.
  20. Compliment me in three different languages.
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Spicy Truth or Dare for Couples (18+)

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For later in the evening. These come from the game’s Spicy pack.

  1. Truth: what turns you on the most?
  2. Truth: what’s your hottest fantasy that you can say out loud?
  3. Truth: describe your perfect foreplay.
  4. Truth: what kind of touch drives you crazy?
  5. Truth: describe your best kiss.
  6. Dare: give me a slow shoulder massage for one minute.
  7. Dare: kiss me on the neck.
  8. Dare: run your finger across my lips.
  9. Dare: blindfold me and kiss me anywhere above the waist.
  10. Dare: trail your lips from my ear down to my neck.
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A hundred kisses, confessions and dares for adults. Add the Red Hot pack when you’re ready.

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Tips for Couples

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Ask, don’t interrogate. A truth is a gift. React with curiosity, not a verdict.

Long distance? Most truths work over video, and our truth or dare over text list is made for chat.

For more couple games, see how well do you know me questions for couples, most likely to questions for couples and couple games online.

Modes, player counts and how a round runs are on the Truth or Dare game page.